2 Steps To Stop Getting Frustrated With Your Fitness Results

Linette Teerlink • April 7, 2025

Have you ever been frustrated with your progress, or lack thereof?

Have you ever started working out and eating well only to be let down a few weeks later when you hop on the scale and nothings changed?

What if I told you that the reason you are frustrated has absolutely nothing to do with the number you see on the scale or the clothes that don't fit you the way you'd like, but it has everything to do with your "self-image"

I stumbled across this
extremely interesting article the other day that explained the idea of self-image and why we view ourselves the way we do.

Long story short, self-image is both a conscious and subconscious way of seeing ourselves and we form this self-image through interaction with outside sources.

It could be friends, family, social media, or anything external that isn't you.

What this means is that we are constantly assessing our worth based on external sources.

Tell me if any of the 3 examples below sound familiar:


Example #1

If everyone in your family is skinny and you've been bigger your entire life you will see yourself in a negative light because you are "not like" the others in your family.

Your self-esteem was probably shot as a kid growing up, and still might be.



Example #2

You've been trying to lose weight for the past year, and after initially losing 20 pounds you've been stuck for the past 8 months. Your coworker, on the other hand, has managed to lose 50 pounds in only 6 months... What gives?

This impacts your self-image because, why can your coworker do it but you can't.



Example #3

You can't lose a pound but your husband loses 30 just by giving up soda.

As you can see, all of these are very real examples that happen outside of both ourselves and our control, but we have a tendency to let them impact us so negatively.

We let these situations tarnish our self-image and we begin to get frustrated because we are comparing ourselves to others and their fitness journey.



Here's how to fix it in just 2 steps

1) Be aware of how external situations are impacting your self-image. Recognize them and let them pass. Understand that your worth and your progress have nothing to do with anyone but yourself.

2) When you see that coworker or your husband or even that actress in that magazine achieve success, be happy for them. Do not be jealous. As the saying goes "Comparison is the thief of joy."


By comparing yourself to others, you are not only taking away from their success, you are taking away from your own.

You are telling yourself that the progress you've made isn't good enough or that it doesn't count.


Imagine telling that to your closest friend, family member, or one of your children.

If they had made progress would you ever tell them directly that what they did doesn't count?

Of course not, because you love them. And now it's time to love yourself :)

So my challenge to you is this.

Next time you find yourself frustrated at your progress ask yourself these questions.

Am I frustrated because I am not actually trying or am I frustrated because I'm letting external sources dictate what I believe my results should look like?


If I am not actually trying, why not?


If I'm letting external sources dictate what I believe my results should look like, what are those sources and how can I be happy and supportive of them?


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